A woman at her best day can get at least five proposals from
men wanting to date her but considering
a good number of facts, just a few or none of the proposals will get consideration.
Here are the true facts about the whole thing and the traits women look for in men;
A. Character and Maturity traits
Dependability
Does a woman feel secure with you? Can you protect them from
the worst happening in the outside world etcetera? Any man out there must be
ready to protect what is his, what is family. Women are always looking for men
who can solve their problems, just be that guy and you got it.
Faithfulness
Though many men do not approve this, just be that guy who
truly loves one woman and would die for her no matter what.
Fatherliness
Women like people who are caring, loving and supportive at
difficult times. Every man needs these traits and for those not having them, at
least try to show you can work on acquiring them.
Kindness
You go out driving with a girl and you cannot stop for
pedestrians to cross or you make an order iin a restaurant and shout at the
waitress, you totally lose it. It’d be nice to treat others kindly and your
date knows you will be kind to her too.
B. Personality traits
Humour
Your name is Kevin Hart or Chris Rock or maybe our very own
Mwalimu King’ang’i, then you got it right. All you got to do is sit on a table
and spit the jokes and an auditorium full of cute women will be pouncing on
you.
Intelligence
How you deal with issues, your approach to tough situations
and how you navigate around problems to find solutions is very attractive to
any woman. Just like employers, women like problem solvers and not the
what-do-we-do guy.
Passion & Confidence
Are u the type that can stand up and talk, and you’ve got to
show you know and understand and believe in what you are saying. Besides that,
your ability to mix with her friends and make her look good in front of
everyone is a tick, be the guy who wants to do better things, a guy who believes
in himself.
C. Physical Attributes
Wallet power
The
last time I checked, no one wants to board a sinking ship and for the same
reasons, women are always looking for men who can solve their problems, just be
that guy and you got it. She needs her hair done; she wants to go shop for that
D&G leather handbag her friend is spotting, you got to chip in.
Can you swing it in the bedroom?
Though
many women do not agree to this and have always stated that sex is not
everything, deep down we all know sex is an important aspect of any
relationship. Just do your job well and your woman will stay around for as long
as you want.
Looks
A
percentage of young women tend to highly consider looks to get a catch so you
better be a hunk to get one. Moreover, if you are her ex look-alike and she
really liked him, you could be in for some hot party party; while some women go
for the muscular men, others prefer the slender type, and like they always say,
everyone has a type.
Natural selection,
One
fact that is bitter to those considered not beautiful, beautiful people go for
beautiful people. In the wild, a frog chooses to mate with the male that croaks
hard enough to show superiority. In as much as we say we are civilized, it
still happens. It’s a psychology thing you won’t understand.
In
the modern times, women would check to see how men interact with other women;
as a man, do you excite other girls, make them laugh, show them love? If you
can exhibit these qualities, every woman in town will come running after you.
Just to be real, try walking into a club with beautiful girls all over you and
watch how you get those glimpses from other girls, you know they want a piece
of you.
By: Faith Aminata,
PataStory.com
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