According to a recent poll conducted online by a top research
firm, your girlfriend or wife could be sleeping somewhere else other than with
you. In this era of bad relationships, poor economy and a sharp rise in
domestic violence, there is no trust anymore between couples with several
engaging in unnoticed string of affairs outside their official relationships.
As revealed by the poll which sampled 1,000 Nairobi women of different age
groups, professions, race, religion and area of residence, 98% of participants agreed to
have cheated on their boyfriends/spouses/husbands at one time with 56%
accepting they are currently cheating.
I just don't know who to fix in the 2% that are not cheating
Reasons
for Cheating
The law is very clear that every suspect is innocent until proven
guilty; cheating girlfriends or wives usually have a good reason to defend
themselves against the grave and gross accusations labeled against them. A good
number of the poll participants came open to reveal these reasons as the main
cause of their straying habits. 28% mentioned they were hitting back at their
cheating boyfriends/husbands, 32% indicated they were in pursuit of adventure and money throwing buddies
with 35% citing their boyfriends/husbands were not good in bed. 5% belonged to
the group that did not know why they were cheating.
Consequences
of cheating
Just like every action has a consequence, the poll participants
gave some of the consequences they have faced as a result of cheating. Break
ups, fights, depression and STD infections are some of the feedback recorded
with the worst incidences leading to divorce among married couples and in most
fatal cases, assault/murder of cheating couples.
In a recent happening in Nairobi, a woman hired goons to kill her
husband whom she claimed was a notorious cheat only for the plan to flop. The
woman who is now free after her husband forgave her and withdrew the charges is
alleged to have hired undercover CID officers who she thought were crooks, only
to realize she was in a mess when the officers arrested her. She had made an
initial payment of Shs 40,000 and promising to clear the balance of Shs 160,000
once the deal is sealed, a matter that never materialized. After mediation and
talks by family members and legal representatives of both the man and the
woman, the matter was settled and a honeymoon for the two love birds followed.
The man maintained he forgave the woman because he loved her and that she was
the mother to their children.
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